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Nice to meet you, Liora Haim


Liora Haim - Updating a version in parenting and family - Coaching parents and adolescents for parental authority in the age of screens

Nice to meet you, Liora HaimNice to meet you, Liora Haim
אני ליאורה, מפקדת לשעבר בצבא הקבע, עם ניסיון של 25 שנים והיום, מאמנת הורים ומשפחות בעידן המסכים.
איך זה מתחבר? מאוד פשוט. כשהשתחררתי מהצבא, הבנתי שהניסיון הרב בהנעת בוגרים ונוער לפעולה (אלפי צעירים), במצבים מאוד מאתגרים ומורכבים הוא ישים גם לחיי באזרחות.

אני מתייחסת לעבודה שלי כשליחות ביכולת לעזור למשפחות לייצר תקשורת בין בני הזוג ובין בני המשפחה, שמותאמת לעידן הדיגיטלי מרובה המסכים והפרעות התקשורת.

המטרה שלי היא ללמד הורים ומתבגרים לתקשר זה עם זה, בצורה מיטיבה ולשפר את האווירה המשפחתית. הדגש העיקרי שחשוב לי להעביר, בהדרכות ההורים, הדרכת מתבגרות ואימון משפחתי הוא שההורים יכולים להיות משמעותיים בגיל הנפיץ ביותר בחיים, גיל ההתבגרות. איך יוצרים קשר אמיתי בין ההורים לילדים, שממנו מרוויחים כל הצדדים.
בעזרת ההדרכות ההוריות והאימונים של המתבגרות, אני מלמדת אתכם "לנטרל פצצות", לשנות הרגלי שיח שגורמים להתפוררות מערכות היחסים במשפחה, ויצירת שפה משותפת, למתבגרים ולהורים, שמורכבת משיח עדכני, ונוכחות הורית משמעותית ופתוחה למתבגרים.

מניסיוני, יחסים בין בני משפחה הם הדבר היחיד שעדיין בשליטה של ההורים ולכן פיתחתי כלים באמצעותם אני מעבירה את הידע הזה הלאה להורים, לטובת יצירת יחסים בריאים וקרובים בין ההורים למתבגרים ויכולת השפעה בנקודת הזמן הקריטית לילדים.

שיטת המגע והאיפור - הדרכות הורים ומתבגרות - בעידן הדיגיטלי החדש, המתבגרות חיות בעולם, שלרוב, אינו העולם של האמהות בצורה כל כך אינטנסיבית. העולם של הצעירות המתבגרות מורכב מביוטי, סטיילינג ומראה חיצוני. ולכן, פיתחתי שיטה שבה דרך האיפור החיצוני, אני מצליחה לחדור פנימה, למגרש הפנימי שלהן.  השיטה מאפשרת לי לפתח שיח וטיפול בכאב של המתבגרות ושל ההורים.

קלפי אימון - עלמה רגשות מאופרים - קלפים שיזמתי בשיתוף פעולה עם 25 אמני איפור מכל העולם, מתורגמים ל - 3 שפות, משמשים ככלי אימוני לנשים ולמתבגרות, לפיתוח שיח עמוק שמשקף את החוץ פנימה, והאת הפנים החוצה, ומטרתו לאפשר הבנה של התהליכים שקורים ברחשי הלב של הנשים והמתבגרות וצמיחה קדימה תוך רווחה נפשית והקלה.

שיטת האימון שלי היא שיטה ייחודית שמגיעה מעולמות של כלים, תרגילים ואימון השלכתי באמצעותו ההורה חווה את דפוסי ההתנהגות שלו כהורה, ואיך זה משפיע עליו, על הילדים ועל האווירה המשפחתית.
פיתחתי כלים ותרגילים ייחודיים מתוך גישות שונות של הנחיית קבוצות, לטובת אימון הורים - בגישה שמאפשרת להם להרגיש על עצמם את תפיסת ההתנהגות שלהם במשפחה, לטובת שינוי מיידי של דפוסי ההתנהגות.

אני מאמינה ששינוי אמיתי מתרחש כשבנאדם מבין מה הוא עושה, קודם כל מרגיש את זה על עצמו מתוך התנסות ומשם הדרך לשינוי ההתנהגות פשוטה יותר. פחות מילים יותר להרגיש ולעשות.

הובלתי את פרויקט בנות מצווה במועצת נשים כפר סבא, מרצה ומנחת סדנאות לנשים, אמהות ונוער.

ובאופן יותר רשמי:
ליאורה חיים, נשואה לחגי ואם ל 4 מתבגרים, בעלת 25 שנות ניסיון בליווי מתבגרים ומשפחות במסגרת שירותי הצבאי. מפקדת ומנהלת בית ספר מקצועי באגף התקשוב, במסגרת התפקיד טיפלתי בחיילים רבים.
בעלת MA בחינוך מיוחד והתמחות בלקויות למידה.
יועצת ומנחת הורים מוסמכת בשיטת אדלר ומנחת קבוצות מוסמכת מטעם מכללת גישות.
בוגרת קורס מנטורים לנשים של השגרירות האמריקאית
מוזמנים לבקר בחממת הבלוגים של יונית צוק - שם תוכלו לעיין בבלוגים מעניינם ונבחרים - ממש פה 

Words from the heart


Recommendations and communication from the media about Liora Haim - parent and adolescent coach for parental authority in a projective approach

To belong to feel at home

Through emotion, a lot of compassion and adaptation to the situation

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Lehi Lapid - in an interview about her parenting

Lehi Lapid is an inspiring woman, a veteran journalist, a polished mother of a discharged soldier who wrote the book "Being a Mother of a Soldier", lectures on being a woman in this age, what it means to be a mother, our desire as women to excel and more. Fascinating to all opinions, and also a mother of three. A fascinating interview that provides a glimpse into Lehi's parenting as a mother to a soldier, how she went through the process, a bit about Yaeli's parenting, the challenges, the difficulties and this special parenting. Fascinating and exciting interview

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How to raise children A - A - Interview with Dr. Annabella Shaked

What is the main problem of adolescence ?, what is our main difficulty as parents and how to properly respond and conduct oneself at this complex age, and not just to survive it. How can we turn from frustrated parents to influential parents? Is it still possible to educate in adolescence? And most importantly how to raise children A, A and not P - the full interview in the post

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"If a Scout bothers you put her on the road" - a chilling life story full of inspiration

A shaky, complex and exciting life story Parental abandonment, sexual abuse, abuse and sexual exploitation are part of Scout Grant's life story. What is even more fascinating is Scout's ability to take the events of her life, her childhood memories, her vulnerabilities and return and produce from them resilience, grow, develop and become a cherished, leading, independent and stable person. An inspiring parent, a partner and a leading professional in her field, a story of herself and her strengths, a story of inspiration - read on

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The complete legal guide - parents of soldiers

The transition to the army is the most significant transition you have faced so far, suddenly we have no control over the situation, we part on the bus at our best and take from us the control and ability to influence, be present and accompany our child closely, as we are used to. What happens to them there a moment after this significant breakup? The head is flooded with questions and fears, what happens to him / her? Did they eat? Getting along? The longings flood us. It is most important to us that they receive a good placement, that they are satisfied, that they do not go to jail, and that they predict Shabbat at home. All the details in an interview with Adv. Holly Schwartz - out of the military prosecutor's office, 21 years in the service of the State Attorney's Office.

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Zohar Lewkowicz - What is really happening on social media and who is protecting our children?

The shark Zohar Lebkowitz, CEO and owner of L1ght1, is interviewed on my blog and talks about a technology that was developed that allows children to be protected from online dangers. This product improves the world "The company operates in the United States and saves children every day. And what happens here in Israel? Who protects children in Israel ?, everything you must know about social networks

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I canceled myself, to continue to belong

הוא בן 56 ואני בת 45 הוא נולד באיראן ועלה לארץ בגיל 13 אני נולדתי בארץ, וגדלתי לאותה תרבות, אותם מנהגים בדיוק כמו שלו. סיפור חייו של קובי, סיפור מרתק, מרגש, מעניין ומלא באומץ, בהשראה, וגם בכוח עליון והכוונה אלוהית בהרבה מאוד קטעים בריאיון הוא ממש סיפר לי את הסיפור של עצמי את הסיפור של הורי את הסיפור של התרבות הפרסית של ההורות הפרסית המנהגים, המסורת, תפיסת העולם ובעיקר חלוקת התפקידים בתוך המשפחה זה היה ריאיון מצמרר כזה שהייתי צריכה זמן כדי לשבת ולכתוב אותו, התרגשתי שוב ושוב לתמלל את הריאיון הזה. סיפור חיים שאני לוקחת ממנו המון תבונות על ההורות שלנו, יכולת הקבלה שלנו את עצמנו ואת הסובבים אותנו, הילדים שלנו. סיפור שדרכו ניתן ללמוד ולהבין כמה כהורים, אנחנו לפעמים בונים את "כרטיס הביקור" שלנו בהורות, בעיוורון מוחלט ואנחנו עושים את זה ממקום של אהבה, ולפעמים אנחנו טועים. זה משאיר אותנו ואותם כואבים, מתוסכלים ומפולגים. ומה שהכי יפה בסיפור הזה זה הכוח של התא המשפחתי - כנסו להמשך קריאה

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I apologized to my adolescent children

She started a new chapter in her life, her first partner left in favor of another love, after this divorce she found out she had cancer, only given a year to live. She bravely decided to live it to the climax, that the children would have a sweet memory. , It has a lot of value in it

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Head of the IDF Mental Health Department - in an interview about adolescents, mental resilience, the effects of the network and more

Our adolescents finish high school and say goodbye to us on a bus in the IDF towards military service, for the first time alone without a mother. How do they cope there? That they are, for their self-worth

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Sheaming, pedophilia, porn and other online dangers - in an interview with Gilad Hahn

Online Dangers - One of the most talked about topics in this age is the age of screens. The subject of online dangers, porn, pedophilia, addiction, drugs, gambling, etc. This is a lot of media, a very disturbing subject and at the same time, my feeling that there is a lot of fear of the subject, fear of confronting such a situation, a lot of shame, and a lot of filters and protections of parents. Which is difficult for them to follow. Cyberbullying requires enforcement and punishment for this there is no arguing, a point that is agreed upon by all of us. What is the parental role in this age? Intervene when there is a problem? Our parental role in this eye, is not to get there, the most appropriate treatment - is prevention. Come read - a must-see interview for any parent

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Explosion of Dangers on the Net - Summary of the study - Jezreel Valley

A study that examined parents' awareness of online dangers presents, we know them well, but not the true power of the network and the real dangers to which our children are exposed. And yes, it's so scary that we're not sure it's happening to us, our kids are very exposed to network damage. The study also shows that there is no clear connection between the parent's level of technological knowledge and the parents' involvement in the child's activities on the Internet. Go ahead and read - let's face reality

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5 TOP - What does every teenager need to know before having sex?

Sexuality in adolescence, the first time has always been a source of concern for every parent, today sex among adolescents occurs at a much earlier stage than we as parents know / h U return. Early exposure to porn, the age of screens, the erosion of emotion among them bring adolescents to sex sometimes at an early age and especially, with lots of knowledge and understanding gaps about a healthy sexual system, adolescents today come to a sexual system with a misunderstood and distorted understanding of reality. Concerns and with a lot of social pressure. What we as mothers must know and also what the teenager must for a moment before she has sex for the first time. This information at the right time will affect her sex life later in life as well - an important post

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Adolescent Guide - Just Before Sex - Part II

What do you feel for the first time? Where is the hymen? So many questions, thoughts going through the minds of teenagers. Knowledge is power, knowledge reduces anxiety, calms and knowledge mostly teaches them about themselves and about their body. How do you insert a tampon, how much does it hurt ?, is it supposed to hurt ?, what should be done ?. Remember, all these questions that we may have thought were trivial and obvious, it is not clear to them, it is not pleasant for them to ask. So here is all the information here for you mom and also for them, and if you are still having a hard time giving her this necessary information, invite you to get help. Reading conferences - very important

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Iran Story Series - Very Important Guests


Articles from clinic life on parenting and adolescent coaching in the Instagram age, for you and for you.

Iranian culture memories from my adolescence

"Parked Munda" - that's what my grandmother was called when she was 14 and had not yet been taken by a man. She was then the kind of object that had to grow up to get married and leave the house. To be the wife of a man, to bear children and to withstand the fixations of a pauperic culture. "Stayed at home," was a kind of derogatory name, "did not take her," not good enough. And beyond that it also did not supply the goods, soiling the family "showcase." So she was a type B, and a mother-in-law with my grandfather who was a 35-year-old widower with 2 children, and she was only 14, an eighth-grade girl - come on in to read more about this creepy story

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Pieces of our lives - I always wanted her to be happy

In my childhood I always wanted to be belonging, belonging is a survival existential need, it made me want (want), give up on myself, on who I am to enter into the social circle mostly. Today as I try to figure out why, I begin to discover the roots of desire within my home. I wanted her (mother) to smile, to see the emotion, to be happy, to say something, even to be angry ... That's where I started wanting, a trait that is acquired in adolescence. It took me years to get myself out of there and belong to who I am - come on in, take a look

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Who needs emotions that need to survive life?

We grew up because we had to be big, mostly healthy and sturdy. In their parental toolbox was authority, maybe even authoritarianism and most of all a lot of desire to raise us according to their understanding to be their next generation. We were for them a kind of "business card", a family "showcase". And that’s how they shaped and influenced who we grew up to be. A lot of good things it has done for us in our adulthood, in our ability and in our ability to survive the realities of life. At the same time emotions were not there, they were and were afraid to take them out of the heart, their way of loving was expressed in a different way than we needed to.

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Stingy prizes

My childhood memories are filled with a moment of shame, moments when I cringed all over and wanted to disappear. Today it is called boycott, shaming and more. For me these were difficult experiences that I suppressed deep in my soul. Today, I manage to put them on the record, look at the girl I was then, 10-year-old Leora, and tell her she has nothing to be ashamed of. Tell her that the prizes are not stingy and also tell her that she can be very proud of the Persian community, the Persian culture and its amazing customs. Today, when I am 45, I can look at myself then, and tell myself that even though I often cringed when derogatory words were thrown at me: stingy Persian, Persian Midoni, Kililaiy and more I was a hero, I dealt alone, pushed, hurt and moved on with my head held high despite everything. Invites you to get to know this community from a brighter angle.

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I was called a stingy Persian

Quite a few times in my childhood and at different stations in my life I was ashamed of my Persians, I heard the phrase stingy prizes quite a few times in my childhood. So, it hit me, I was shrinking all over and I wanted to be like everyone else, neither stingy nor Persian. Without any labeling, I wanted to belong. And to be like everyone else, like the "good guys", in some places I took care to hide what made me feel different.

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Inspirational adolescents


Maya's story is a story of determination and faith, belief first of all in herself, her abilities and her full right to be an equal in adulthood and mature internalization of her physical limitation as a limitation that lives with her and not as a limitation that stops or limits I interviewed Maya and was left with lots of thoughts. We can and should learn from Maya's story, a choice in life, a choice in light and an escape from the place of the victims and the poor.

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An inspirational story we can all learn from, an 11-year-old teenager who decides in the great freedom to realize his passion in the giant, instead of looking for a job as a babysitter he decides to start his own business, and he does it in the giant. He is the face of the business, his recipes are secret and currently he is exempt from paying taxes, his site is active, he is satisfied with the sales situation and at the same time thinks about expanding the target audience, expanding the product range, definitely a young entrepreneur, want to get inspired and order desserts? Come learn Mair Saranga, anyone can!

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She is only 16 years old and is full of blessed doing. She is an entrepreneur, a professional basketball player who is taking tests for the Israeli team this year, studying humanities at the Weizmann Institute and at the same time modeling and printing in three dimensions. During the Corona, in light of the lack of protection for medical staff, Libby initiated a project that aims to create protective for medical staff, exciting and empowering to meet a teenager who took responsibility and did a life-saving act with an inspiring volunteer spirit and lots of respect - invites you to learn from Libby about passion, giving and lots of inspiration

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When you hear her heart pounding, a voice full of volume mixed with childish playfulness, innocence and stability that vibrates hearts. Michaela Sher is a young teenager who kisses at the age of 14 with so many values, stability and power. One of the teenagers we can all learn from about giving, investing, receiving and especially self-belief and courage - get her Michaela Sher

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Alma Saar Iron is a unique teenager, I have a personal acquaintance with her, she participated in a workshop I gave to adolescents on self-esteem, during the workshop I saw a unique girl, with high self-esteem, looking inward with courage, personal integrity and lots of daring and courage. I continued to follow her and decided to let you also get inspiration from her, definitely unique

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You have quite a few complaints about this "generation", lazy, rude and more and more. If we look at them without judgment and criticism we find amazing teenagers doing wonderful things, inspiring and lingering, exciting, compassionate and human lovers. Chooses to focus on them, illuminate this good, strengthen them and allow us to learn from them, their so special compiler to give to others, to help and be meaningful in their world

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Articles from clinic life on parenting and adolescent coaching in the Instagram age, for you and for you.

"If a Scout bothers you put her on the road" - a chilling life story full of inspiration

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Questions and Answers - All the information about adolescence

Teenagers watch porn ?, how do you handle it properly?

It happens in the best families, our children / adolescents are exposed to information that may be harmful to them online.
So let's leave the ego aside for a moment, our kids are watching porn , and they are watching porn at a very young age .
All the information here - a must-read article for any parent


How to be an influential parent?

My father like most fathers his age was never in parental guidance. Did not change a diaper, did not attend parent meetings, did not prepare dinner ....
In recent years there has been a smell of a new dad in the air.
A father who is not only the result of a sperm donation but an involved, active and partner father.
Such a father who attends parent meetings, who is involved in his children's lives attends a childbirth preparation course and prepares dinners.
Want to learn from Abuash - go to the full article - Mom click here

Respect and quarrels between siblings

We all know this frustration when the kids quarrel with each other non-stop, the dream of all of us is that everyone will get along with everyone and be best friends. In practice, they quarrel non-stop, verbal arguments alongside physical violence. Honorable brother, is it important to you? Want brothers without rivalry? All the details especially for you here





All information about children during Corona

How do you mediate the situation for young children as well as adolescents?
What is the recommended agenda for adolescents? Is there such a thing?
What to do with boredom and more and more. All the information here

The effect of media on self-image


Adolescent Self-Esteem Academic ArticlesBasual Self-Impact of Media on Body Image Articles
Self-image and social skillsType of self-imageSelf-self-image and change of attitudes

How much does porn occupy my teenager?

When do I as a parent need to worry?
What are the warning lights I should look at as a parent of an adolescent? When does it become dangerous for him / her and when does it prevent him / her from behaving properly?
Test questionnaire here

My teenager locks himself in his room all day, does nothing at home and we can not harness him for cooperation

Adolescence begins today at age 8 and is different and challenging each year, the main insight we need to understand as parents of adolescents is that children cannot be educated in adolescence, the main problem of adolescence is all the way there, somewhere in young childhood. So what do you do anyway? There is a lot to do, all the answers to the questions on the subject here - go in and read information that can help you a lot

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